01design your AI girlfriend · 18+
Design your AI girlfriend before you wire her up
Looks are a separate sheet from behaviour, and doing them first is the easiest way in. Set the silhouette, choose what she wears, decide how she carries herself, then move to the voice.
Fictional AI characters, written as adults. Nobody here is a real person.
- 01Silhouetteinstalled
- 02Wardrobeinstalled
- 03Bearinginstalled
- 04Voicepending

looks lifted from finished sheets
- shape

- wardrobe

- bearing

- colour

3/4Wire her up
Look rows only — voice and manner are fitted on the build sheet.
- Look sheet first
- Refit any row
- Free to start
- 18+
02The detail
What the look sheet decides, and what it leaves alone
The design rows change what you see and one thing you hear — how she describes herself.
When you design your AI girlfriend here, three rows do the visual work. Silhouette sets build and height. Wardrobe sets what she is usually wearing and how she puts it together. Bearing is the odd one out and the one that matters most: it is how she occupies a room — still, restless, upright, folded into a corner — and it leaks into the way she writes about herself.
What the look sheet does not touch is her behaviour. A tailored silhouette does not make her formal, and a soft wardrobe does not make her warm; those come from voice and manner on the build sheet. Keeping the two sheets separate is deliberate, because tying personality to appearance is how character creators end up with six identical characters in different outfits.
The design rows refit like every other part. Change the wardrobe on a build that has been running a month and nothing else about her moves — same voice, same memory, same limits, different clothes.
What works well
- Looks and behaviour are separate sheets, not one blended slider
- Bearing is a real row, not a cosmetic afterthought
- Any design row can be refitted on a running build
- The preview card redraws after each row
- Nothing about her looks is locked to her personality
- Starting from the look sheet is free
Worth knowing first
- The look sheet alone will not open a conversation — voice is on the other sheet
- Three rows cannot describe every appearance in detail
- Some deeper options sit behind the optional upgrade
- Fictional AI characters only, and strictly 18+
03On this page
Three designs from the same three rows
Identical sheet, different answers. Note how much of the difference is bearing rather than wardrobe.

One wardrobe idea carried the whole design — everything else was left at default.

Designed for warm indoor light, which changed the colour row more than the shape row.

A deliberately plain silhouette, so the bearing row does all the talking.
04In practice
Designing first, wiring second
Starting with the look sheet is the easiest entry into the kit because the questions are concrete: you know what you like the moment you see it, in a way you do not when a form asks you to describe a personality. By the time the three design rows are filled, the voice you want tends to be obvious, and the build sheet takes another minute.
The reverse order works too and produces different results. People who wire her up first usually design a look that matches the voice they already heard — quieter clothes for a quieter build — while people who design first are more adventurous with the wardrobe and end up with the more distinctive characters.
05Quick answers
Designing her — quick answers
01Does designing her look change how she behaves?
02Can I redesign her later without losing the conversation?
03What is the bearing row for?
04Do I have to design her before talking to her?
05Is the design sheet free?
06Keep reading
Four more ways into the build
Each page answers a different question about building her yourself.
07Start the build
Start from the look and the rest gets easier
Confirm you are 18, fill the three design rows and watch the preview redraw — then move to the voice with a much clearer idea of what you want. Free to start, no card.
